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Anxiety Is Driving Kids Mad!

Back To School.

Children have been back at school a few weeks since writing this blog however, this has been happening all across the country and indeed all over the world, kids going back to school after their holidays or long break. Their anxiety kicks in and ruins the last two weeks of their break. Plus the tormented sleepless night before they go to school. This could be due to not liking school, lack of friends, new school, new teacher, old and new bullies, and the list goes on. Not to mention a disruptive home life with the added bonus of trying to achieve good grades.

Anxious Kids…

Since the kids have gone back to school, Anxiety Hypnosis has had a big increase in the amount of young kids needing treatment for anxiety, panic attacks, fears, and dealing with the threat of bulling.

Kids are terrified of the prospect of having to deal with all of this and more because of the system and their lack of knowing how to help themselves. It is really setting them up for a lifetime of stress, anxiety, then leading to depression.

Anxiety Hypnosis.

The Nexus Team can help your child to feel better about themselves. Showing them the skills so that they know that fear, panic, and anxiety can leave them. So we can get your child to feel better about their ability to be courageous, motivated, confident, and above all be happy. This will free up their minds of stress so that they can concentrate better on getting good grades so they can hopefully get the job that they really want.

Picture This…

Which child would thrive better…

Twin Brothers on LawnOne that has lead a life of stress, fear, guilt, and anxiety, who grows up in a low paid income bracket and is a smoker, heavy drinker, also possibly on anti depressants.

Or a child who learned how to de-stress, and grows into a person who is self motivated, confident and has the career that they chose, who has a healthy life style and thriving family who enjoy great holidays.

Important.

This is now down to you! School council and other government bodies who are trying their best to help kids can be swamped with numbers of kids they have to see. However there is a solution for you because The Nexus Team at Anxiety Hypnosis can offer your kids the real treatment that they truly deserve. Whether in person or via skype.

Contact Information.

Please feel free to contact The Nexus Team on his contact me page on Anxiety Hypnosis.

Previous blogs on children’s issues with Anxiety.

We also cover a range of other problems of anxiety which we offer that you can see here.

If you need help further with any anxiety problems then you can get an instant free download to 7 solutions to axe anxiety. 

You can also see how Jikiden Reiki is for calming a busy mind down.

Contact Numbers-Emails Address.

Call me on the following numbers to book your appointment.

In the UK. M: 07939 905 388

In the UK. T: 01922 285 118

hellohello@anxietyhypnosis.co.uk

Helping You Towards success.

The Nexus Team.

Angry Bad Kids In Walsall Don’t Get What They Deserve!

Which one is yours?

  • Naughty.
  • Bad.
  • Disruptive.
  • Disobedient.
  • Vile.
  • Angry.
  • Mean.
  • Spoilt.
  • Stressed.
  • Annoying.
  • Bully.
  • Screaming.
  • Swearing.
  • Cruel.

Which One Are You?

Our kids copy our behaviours. No surprise there! So if you want a better-behaved kid, why don’t you change?

Why Kids Go Bad.

We focus only on what we want, so to give our children what they want means we have to go out to work to provide these things for them. Sometimes we didn’t get what we wanted as children so the natural thing is to provide what our children want. But this creates an unbalanced relationship because the child feels it never gets what it needs. Many kids become disruptive because of a parent or parents not realising this, so they try harder to give their child the next new toy, gadget, or game to pacify them. This is short lived and you end up with a kid who goes “bad”.

How To Get A Good Kid.

Stop giving them what they want and start to give them what they need.

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So What Do They Need?

This could possibly be anything that you don’t have to buy.

Give A Child What It Needs.

Whether you live in Walsall or Birmingham or anywhere in the rest of the country for that matter, it is important to offer your children your unconditional love.

This Would Include.

  • Love.
  • Help.
  • Nurturing.
  • Your attention.
  • Giving them space.
  • Your time.
  • Teach them respect.
  • Offering guidance.
  • Kindness.
  • Acceptance.
  • Courage.
  • Fearlessness.
  • Independent.
  • Caring.
  • Rules.
  • Boundaries.
  • Interaction.
  • Activities.
  • Warmth.
  • Failure is okay.
  • To succeed is okay.
  • Laughter.
  • The right foods and drinks.
  • Always speak to your child as if he was the most intelligent person in the room.

And many more that would indicate a thriving and loving child.

People Of Walsall, Where To Start?

Start with yourself as you can only teach when you know the way. Allow yourself to stop the negative talking and make a plan of how you would like to have your child think about you when you are no longer around. Or treat them how you would have liked to have been treated as a child.
Remember that life can be really easy when you think about it. Look at the nature around you, how other animals don’t have to shout at their kids. Also how the parents are always with them. Give it ago to find out how they change from unruly to excellent.

The Nexus Team Anxiety Hypnosis.

Sometimes we need that little extra help in knowing how to talk and handle our children and if this is something that you feel you would like to know more of or how I can help you then please get in touch.

Angry Kids Need Anxiety Hypnosis.

Angry kids need my help because it can be very hard to get your child to stop being angry. This is because you are probably the one who caused the anger and you may not be able to undo what you have created. With the help of The Nexus Team you can help your child to feel more relaxed and less angry which would help you get control of the rest and start to build a better relationship with your child.

Further Info From Anxiety Hypnosis.

Taking action is really easy, so here are my contact details at Anxiety Hypnosis with The Nexus Team.

Look at my past blog on helping children at anxiety hypnosis helping anxious children.

Book a Free Complimentary Consultation to help you find that loving child.

What else can The Nexus Team help you with? Look at our page to see what we offer at Anxiety Hypnosis.

Please take the time to look at our reviews on Google on The Nexus Team Reviews.

You can also contact us in the usual ways.

My Contacts:

Call me on the following numbers to book your appointment.

In the UK. M: 07939 905 388

info@nexuxhypnotherapy.co.uk

Helping you toward success.

The Nexus Team.

FEARS & PHOBIAS IN WALSALL by The Nexus Team Anxiety Hypnosis.

What is a Phobia?

Phobias are expressed by a total avoidance, to either doing or going anywhere near the subject of the phobia. e.g. If you have a phobia of dentists, this means you will do everything in your power never to go to the dentist. Even if you are in pain with your teeth, phobics would rather pull their own teeth out than visit a dentist. Of course this is only one example…

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What is a Fear?

A fear has varying degrees of what is called a sliding scale of fear. This can range from mild fear to a really bad fear. People who may have a fear of the dentist, would be able to tolerate visiting the dentist. This again is dependant on the severity of the fear. As one might go on their own, another may find a sympathetic dentist and go at a quiet time. This is so that the fear can in some way be managed. Again this can go for other things that people are fearful of, such as needles, snakes, and dogs to name but a few.

Anxiety Hypnosis Helping You To Manage Your Fears & Phobias In Walsall.

Anxiety Hypnosis Helping You To manage your Fears & Phobias In Walsall is where I have developed special techniques to help people get over their issues. The good news is that you don’t have to put up with the fears or phobias any longer – so long as you really want to get rid of them!
At Anxiety Hypnosis, The Nexus Team will help you to get rid of the fears or phobias, and in many cases he will do this within 1 session. Even if you have failed before to get rid of your fears or phobias, then realise that I can help you.

3 Tips To Help You Manage Your Fears or Phobias.

# 1 Recognise whether this is a fear or phobia you are experiencing. If this is a fear or even a very strong fear, it is easier to deal with on your own than it is to manage a phobia. Managing a phobia can be quite draining as you are constantly on the lookout for danger. A fear isn’t nearly so bad. So now you know what it is you have and most people have a fear to one degree or another.

# 2 So if this is a fear, you have probably taken avoidance most of your life. However this has never cured your fear. One of the best things that you can do is to face what it is that you fear. But don’t rush into this. Set out some rules, limitations and guidelines to make sure you conquer this. e.g could be that you want to get over your fear of heights. Start to get used to the height before you progress to the next level. Let your thoughts become comfortable before you move onwards and upwards.

# 3 If you have a severe phobia, then more than likely you will have to see a specialist that deals with your phobia. Other than that, you can get rid of your fear by knowing as much as you can on that subject. i.e. If you fear spiders, then it might help to know about the spider that you fear. It will not be a deadly spider that you’ll probably never come into contact with – but just the everyday house spider that we have in the UK. Remember that knowledge is power and understanding the spider will help you disarm the negative fears it has had over you.

Anxiety Hypnosis Offering You More Help & Guidance.

  • The Nexus Team at Anxiety Hypnosis is offering you more help and guidance with links to other blogs as well as how to contact me .
  • Also you can get The Nexus Team’s Anxiety Hypnosis 7 Solutions To Axe Anxiety.
  • My blog link to help you with the fear of flying with The Nexus Team’s Flying Fabulously Tool Kit.
  • My blog link to help you with a journal to help you get organised, this can help you improve by creating a positive mindset.
  • Remember to get you Free Complimentary Consultation.
  • Please look out for future blogs, tips, tricks, and strategies to help you abolish anxiety forever with The Nexus Team at Anxiety Hypnosis.
  • Our aim is to get you feeling positive, confident, successful. All available in Walsall also we offer you the chance to try our Reiki Healing available in Walsall & Pelsall.

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Anxiety Hypnosis Giving You 7 Great Tips To Boost Your Confidence.

Ground Rules.

Here are a few ground rules to begin with, when boosting your confidence. If you apply my 7 great tips to boost your confidence you will start to be perceived as a confident individual that is self assured with a purpose and has a direction in life.

Everyone is born with confidence, but as we grow up it can be difficult to handle. It can be perceived by others that you are cocky or arrogant or having a chip on your shoulder, and most people want to knock that chip off your shoulder.

Losing Your Confidence.

As you grow up, you let people chip away at your confidence little by little or in some cases all at once. This can happen with people you class as friends, or in a relationship, or parents, teachers and so on.

How does this happen?

You allow this to happen by agreeing with them whenever you are criticised in some way. You start to question your own confidence and if more than one person picks up on the same fault (that you think you have) then you will agree with them that you are lacking confidence.

Confidence_level_shutterstock_1404190127 Great Tips To Boost Your Confidence

#1 Spot the signs of those around you who criticise your abilities and your confidence.

#2 Ditch those that make you feel insecure or better still question their true values towards you.

#3 Start to act confidently. Have a body posture that looks confident. (Pretend and fake it if you have to).

#4 Have a strong loud voice that is clear as the voice will make you become confident.

#5 Do little things to bring back a strong level of confidence. i.e. Asking a shop assistant for help etc…

#6 Don’t put yourself down just because others have done this to you. Start to believe in yourself.

#7 Stand in front of a mirror, then strike a CONFIDENT posture and do this for 2 mins twice a day.

Remember…

That you are the one that can control the amount of confidence you have, you can have as much confidence to do whatever you want with your confidence.

It is your given right to have confidence and you are allowed to show your confidence everyday. We are allowed to have many confident moments in our life. So start showing confidence to others and people who like you will respect your confidence.
Alcohol & Confidence.

Drinking to excess to feel confident will never really work and will only mask your own ability to prove once and for all that you are confident. So lay off the alcohol for the dutch courage. Start to build some self belief.

Getting Professional Help.

Some of you will require professional help to get you over the mental stumbling block of lacking confidence. At Anxiety Hypnosis I have helped many people and children to have more confidence than they thought was possible and I know you are just like them. I believe in you more than you do, I know you can show your confidence if you really want it.

If you are fed up with the restraints that the lack of confidence brings you and you know that you would benefit with my help, I will only be too happy to help you get your confidence back.

The Nexus Team will show you how to be confident as there are 1000’s upon 1000’s of people who lack confidence.

Remember that you can only hide the lack of confidence for so long because one day you will have to have confidence to do something and you will soon realise that you don’t have any.

This could be with relationships, an interview with work, promotions, meeting new people or social anxiety as this requires CONFIDENCE to overcome social fears and dreads etc…

Get your free complimentary consultation by booking here today at anxiety hypnosis contact me.

You can also get some more great tips on anxiety hypnosis 7 solutions to axe anxiety. So you can have 14 tip to help you right now.

If you would like a private 1-2-1 session with me and you are in the Birmingham area a of either Pelsall or Walsall, then I can help you.

The Nexus Team at Anxiety Hypnosis is Helping You Towards Success.

Below are some GREAT TIPS on GOAL Setting.

If you missed these on FaceBook. I have posted them onto my Anxiety Hypnosis Blog Site.

I have to speak in general terms as I don’t know what your specific goal is. But the method of how it works will be the same principle. (A goal is a goal is a goal).

#1 A goal is only limited by your lack of imagination to have it come into fruition…

#2 Don’t make your goal too unachievable as this will destroy your confidence.

#3 A goal doesn’t have to change the world, it just has to satisfy you.

#4 Your goal can be for anything that you believe will improve you. i.e. to cook a meal, prove that you can be confident, learn to play an instrument, be a better person, change an old negative behaviour pattern, save a certain amount of money, or to get that dream job or your promotion.

#5 Your goal is the end result of a series of events that you have worked too. But more often than not your goal continues to develop.

#6 Now that you have a goal in place, write this in a diary as to when it will happen, this could be to lose weight or to build muscle.

#7 If you have given yourself 6 months to do this. Start to divide your diary up into manageable segments. This can be a review of your accomplishments of each week. e.g You have lost 3 pounds in the first week, so you know you are on track.

#8 Have trust in the process of what you want. You will also need to have a value to why you want to have this goal in the first place.

#9 Start to tell people who you believe will help you get your goal. If someone puts you down, then realise that this is your goal and not theirs and they are telling you that they couldn’t do this. So don’t see their failure as a reflection of you.

#10 You may need to seek help from people you never thought you would need help from. If you want to lose weight, you might have to see a personal trainer, or if you want to speak better for either work related events or self improvement – you may need to go to Toastmasters. And so on.

#11 What is the difference between a person who succeeds and one who fails. It is their story. Both will face the same problems – but failure will talk about how difficult it was and how bad the problems were to overcome and how they got stopped. The success story will be the same as the failure story apart from how they overcame adversity.

#12 Start to act as though you have already accomplished what you set out to do. If this was to pass a test for example, Act as though you have passed. Imagine you want to pass a driving test, you could imagine while you’re out that your car in parked in a certain car park.

#13 The human mind and body has to do what it cannot do. What I mean by this is. If you want to learn to swim, then you have to get into the water, if you want to do public speaking, then you have to speak, If you want to get rid of fear, then you have to do the very thing that makes you fearful. So if you want to be a successful person, then you have to do successful things.

#14 Use positive self talk, you can use a mirror for this and if need be give yourself a telling off, but always end on how you will achieve your goal.

#15 Use a power stance. Stand in front of a full length mirror and strike a pose of success or how you will feel when your goal is completed. Do this twice a day for two minutes at a time. If you see models on the catwalk whether men or women, they walk with power and confidence no matter how crazy the outfit is.

#16 Read and learn as much as you can on having a goal mindset. Once your mind is set to aim for the goal, then it is just a matter of chronological time for the fruits of your labour to manifest.

#17 Imagine the farmer, what he has to do to prepare for the harvest. Waiting a whole year or longer depending on the crop to know that his hard work paid off. Yours will be the same. So don’t pick at nu-ripened fruit as you will have a bitter taste left. In other words don’t judge your success before it’s time.

#18 Don’t be to rigid in your thinking as you may be steered in a different direction to what you thought it was going to be.

#19 Have an appreciation of your milestones and celebrate. The media is great for doing this. Look at the Oscars and Gramme awards, the fancy functions and parties that they throw for themselves. This can be a great boost for you.

#20 Don’t let a failure dictate you away from your goal. If anything that you do, will at some point go wrong. But if you worked this into your goal plan to begin with, then it is no surprise.

#21 There will always be happy accidents as there is no such thing as failure. You only have feedback to know what works best for your goal.

#22 Don’t be overly focused to the detriment of other important values in your life. Such as family and friends and down time.

#23 The mind is a great instrument and it can often work better when you least expect it. Creative companies will let the staff play with toys and have a brightly coloured room to help inspire their minds.

#24 You won’t remember everything related to your goal when you are on this journey. So get ready to record your thoughts, so have a pen and paper handy, especially when you’re in bed as your creative thinking will happen then.

#25 Have time management to help you and don’t burn yourself out to get what you want because it will all turn out for the best in the end, And if it’s not turned out properly, then it’s not the end just yet.

#26 Write down a plan of ACTION every week.

#27 Have positive affirmations that will reinforce the goal for your need. e.g. “I am relaxed more today than yesterday”. “I now have my dream house”. Etc…

#28 Don’t give up at any stage. This is a process and you have to complete it.

#29 Enjoy the journey of achieving your goal as this is as important as accomplishing your GOAL

#30 Always be proactive in getting what you have set out to do. Whether this is to write a daily blog to help and inspire others or conquer your fears or to pass that final exam.

#31 Your brain works better with protein, so eat properly and you will function better.

#32 Have rules, limitations and boundaries. These are important for example if you wanted to write a book. As with a story, you need a system to work to and for your goal, you need a system that will work for you.

#33 Create a discipline order and structure, in other words make a plan of successful events that will prove to you that you are well on your way to achieving your goal.

#34 Remember to be kind to yourself and don’t be too hard as firm flexibility works best.

#35 Let me be the first to congratulate you on your personal success as you knew you could do it. So whether this was a personal achievement to live a happier life, to cook a gourmet meal, or buy your dream house or get that job you wanted, or to help mankind. Whatever it is, realise that you can do it!

The Nexus Team Anxiety Hypnosis Goals

Remember that your goal can be for anything, whether this is to get rid of anxiety or to build your own dream house, and anything in between.
So go out there and make a personal difference to you. Make it count.

Information & Free Stuff.

If you need any guidance on your personal goals and/or to conquer your anxiety, fear, or panic attacks then The Nexus Team is here to help you at Anxiety Hypnosis.

You may also enjoy the calming benefits of Reiki Healing, if you would like to book a session of Jikiden Reiki with me then please get in touch at Anxiety Hypnosis Contact Me.

You can also read my other blogs related to other problems, e.g. fear of dogs, fear of spiders, also flying phobias or social anxiety. Read more Anxiety Hypnosis blogs.

You can also get my FREE download to help you with axing your anxiety. Available at Anxiety Hypnosis 7 solutions to help you Axe Anxiety.

The Nexus Team at Anxiety Hypnosis is available for 1-2-1 therapy sessions in the Birmingham area of Walsall and Pelsall.

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8 Anxiety Hypnosis Busting Tips

‘Below you will find 8 Anxiety Hypnosis Busting Tips to help you with Anxiety’ 

Fighting Anxiety.

Fighting Anxiety is one of the hardest things you can do-or rather the lack of you doing anything about it to begin with.
If you have ANXIETY and you tell people about your problem, then that’s okay. But if you tell people about your ANXIETY, but you aren’t doing anything to change it, then you are just whining.

 8 Anxiety Hypnosis Tips… 

               Here are 8 Anxiety Hypnosis tips to bust through your problems.

Anxiety Hypnosis Birmingham Walsall Pelsall# 1 Start to create mental distance between you and the problem, see it as if someone has come to seek advice from you. You tell them how they can deal with the problem.
# 2 Focus on what you can do to change the negative to a positive outcome.
# 3 Stop acting surprised how people are around you. If you know that a person is negative, then it is no surprise if they start to make you feel down.
# 4 Start to gather friends who make you feel better and always leave them feeling better.
# 5 Don’t be an agony aunt for other people as this will drain your energy, making you feel tired.
# 6 Set rules, limitations and boundaries on what you want from yourself.
# 7 If crap has happened in your life, then what a surprise as this happens to everyone. Don’t let the negative event tell you how to feel.
# 8 Train your mind everyday. Start to say nice things about yourself. Try this for 1 week and see what happens.

The Nexus Team.

The Nexus Team can offer you a 1-2-1 private therapy session to help you conquer your anxiety. The techniques that I use are there to help you de-clutter your mind of anxious thoughts.
I use a combination of Hypnosis, N.L.P. and E.M.D.R. Also Christine and I are qualified Jikiden Reiki Therapists. Here you have a great option to get you mentally well from anxiety.

What To Do Next.

We offer you a great solution to help conquer anxiety, then to help bring about confidence by getting to be back in control.
If you need to know more or curious of what we have on offer to help you, then please contact me. You can get my 7 tips to axe anxiety from Anxiety Hypnosis. Or book a FREE complimentary consultation.

The Nexus Team.

The Nexus Team works from home in the Walsall area, he also has a practice in Pelsall which is a suburb of Birmingham. If you would like a free complimentary consultation, then please contact me. You can also download my FREE 7-solutions-to-axe-anxiety. We pride ourselves on results for our clients, see what past clients had to say on: What people are saying.

Until then take care – Helping you towards success.

The Nexus Team & Christine.

Anxiety Hypnosis with Jikiden Reiki helping you in Birmingham, Walsall & Pelsall

CYNOPHOBIA AND THE FEAR OF DOGS

Anxiety Hypnosis & Jikiden Reiki is Helping you in Birmingham – Walsall – Pelsall
Birmingham, Walsall and Pelsall have many dog walking areas as indeed all over the UK, but for the many people with a fear of dogs this can be a very daunting experience. Anxiety Hypnosis or Jikiden Reiki Therapy can be your biggest way to compact this heightened anxiety, fear of dogs.

What is the fear of dogs and why do I have it?

The fear of dogs, or Cynophobia to call it by its official name, refers to a condition in which an individual suffers from an intense or extreme anxious fear of dogs, more specifically, being bitten or harmed by a dog. This fear of dogs, more often than not, leads to the sufferer taking extreme measures and methods in order to avoid seeing or being in the presence of a dog.
Even though most Cynophobic adults understand that their fear is irrational and even unreasonable at times, they simply cannot control or manage this fear when a situation arises in which a dog is present. Normally the root cause of cynophobia comes from a previous traumatic experience, normally from childhood. This could have been caused from something physical like an actual dog bite or attack, to a bad memory of loud, angry or an aggressive barking dog.

Anxiety Hypnosis EMDR.

EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing) is one of the best ways that The Nexus Team knows of that will help your mind process the bad thoughts and so leaving you feeling more in control. EMDR is non invasive, also my clients have enjoyed the outcome of this process. Combined with the power of hypnosis that can create a long lasting effect of confidence. I often use my dog Jack who helps my clients overcome their fear/anxiety as he helps reduce this fear by getting them to be more accepting of dogs and so be anxious free.

As with most fears and phobias, an individual’s level of fear or anxiety differs from person to person. For some, dogs who seem under control by their owners and on a lead, have little or no effect to them as their stress level remains low and for them to feel in control. However, a dog roaming free may cause a sharp increase in anxiety/fear and panic levels. For other individuals, simply the sound of barking dogs is enough for panic and anxiety to set in.

What are the symptoms of Cynophobia?

The fear of dogs has many of the same symptoms as similar fears or phobias, however sufferers of cynophobia seem to experience more of a frightened or scared effect if the dog appears aggressive or is barking angrily.
In addition to panic and anxiety, you may also experience one or more of the following symptoms upon encountering, or in the presence of a dog;

Increase in heart rate
Sweating
Heightened levels of fear
Shaking Limbs
Nausea
Dizziness
Irrational thoughts
Irrational behaviours

Many suffers of cynophobia experience this phobia but do not seek treatment as they see their fear of dogs as a normal everyday fear and most individuals are never able to overcome this fear alone.
What can I do to overcome and manage my fear of dogs?

There is a big difference in managing your cynophobia and actually curing it indefinitely. By simply managing your fear of dogs i.e. crossing the road when you see a dog or avoiding the presence of dogs entirely, you are not addressing the deeper lying issues at hand. However, a long term solution to overcoming your fears completely is available in the form of Anxiety Hypnosis. This treatment is by far the easiest way to face your fears, tackle them head on and overcome them completely.

The Nexus Team Anxiety Hypnosis and now with Jikiden Reiki have been helping clients from all over the United Kingdom, overcome their fear of dogs for many years, and all in a safe and comfortable environment that is perfectly suited to your needs.

Anxiety Hypnosis/Jikiden Reiki Helping You – What can I do next?

If you are currently suffering from a fear, stress, panic Attacks, or Anxiety of dogs or find that you experience any of the related symptoms that you have read above, then contact me at The Nexus Team Hypnosis. With my help, and with the assistance of my other techniques I can help you take back control of your fears again and overcome your phobia once and for all! You can also view want my past clients had to say about Anxiety Hypnosis

Jikiden Reiki with The Nexus Team or Christine at Anxiety Hypnosis.

Searching for help with your fears, anxiety, stress, irritability, phobia, or panic attacks needn’t be a long process as at Jikiden Reiki with The Nexus Team or Christine at Anxiety Hypnosis we are here to help you!

If you would prefer Jikiden Reiki from Christine or the combined treatment of Jikiden Reiki and Anxiety Hypnosis with me The Nexus Team, then we offer you the choice. Many people in the Birmingham/Walsall/Pelsall and surrounding areas are feeling the benefit of the therapy Christine and The Nexus Team have to offer.

It’s time to get your anxiety, fear or dogs FIX, because at the end of the day – DOGS are not going to go away and you have to live in a world full of dogs.

Book a FREE complementary consultation and see how best you would feel without this fear. Conquer it today or just try the wonderful experience of Jikiden Reiki. Please take away your FREE Axe- Anxiety Guide with 7 great tips for you to use against anxiety. Compliments from The Nexus Team Ayres for reading: Fear of Dogs

Anxiety/Fear of DOGS in Children.

Anxiety Hypnosis Jikiden Reiki help Anxiety, Fear of Dogs Jack & ChristineYour child can also be a sufferer of this terrible fear and anxiousness of dogs. But you can help them by letting them experiencing the positive benefits of either Jikiden Reiki or Hypnotherapy. Now it’s over to you to contact us: The Nexus Team Anxiety Hypnosis

Anxiety Hypnosis & Jikiden Reiki. Helping you towards success.
From The Nexus Team & Christine.

INTRO VIDEO.

Wobbling.

This is about stopping you from Wobbling.

That means stop Judging events, places and people.

Watch the video and I will explain.

I’ll be posting a new video tomorrow, so catch up with you then!

Helping you towards success.

 

http://https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b_SOWxs0JCM

2/5 Videos.

Wrong Food Can Cause Anxiety/Stress.

This video is about what can cause the symptoms of stress/anxiety that can feel like brain fog.

If you don’t consume the right nutrients for your brain, then you will not process information properly and so feel stressed.

This is a simple and most effective way to deal with this problem.

I hope you like the video, but if you would prefer a 1-2-1 private free complimentary consultation to deal with your particular problem that you are suffering.

Then please contact me at hellohello@anxietyhypnosis.co.uk

Helping you towards success.

http://https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kj60OO42-8w

#3/5 Videos

ILLUSION OF FEAR!!

Fear can easily disappear, all you have to do is get creatively confident by conquering your fear.

Watch the video, I’ll explain.

If you need an effective remedy for your fear of Dogs, Spiders, or Exams etc, contact me for a free complimentary consultation to see how I can help you by conquering your particular fear.

I will show you how you can live a life of being fearless.

My #1 tip is get to understand what it is that you are fearful of, because the more you understand what it is then the fear can go away by itself.

But if you are struggling with your worst fear and don’t know where to start, then call me today.

What I will do for you?
I will assess your fear and with my techniques by getting you to an even better understanding to help you to overcome this.
I will also personally adapt a hypnotic trace for you to deal with your fear and get you to conquer the fear.
I will offer you ongoing support if you should require further help, so you can be assured that you won’t be left on your own.

Helping you towards success.

http://https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HlPI0L9nhJE

BACK AWAY FROM THE STRESS!

Stress can build up each time you endure it and this makes you get used to the stress. Until one day you have a breakdown.

Stress is the number one reason people are off work or they have related stress problems.

Here are some key things that you can do to help improve your overall stressful life.

#1 As in the video, remove yourself away from a stressful situation, until your head feels clear and can tattle the problem once more.

#2 Notice that everybody’s threshold of stress is different. If you have a low tolerant towards stress then notice this and keep yourself in check, that means you are in control of your stress level.

#3 If you feel your stress creeping up into the red zone, like the rev counter on a car, then you know it’s time to either breathe deeper or remove yourself from the problem if possible.

If your stress is at its peek, then I would advise you to seek out a therapist who deals with stress, as I do. I can help with hypnosis and NLP to get you not to over react to stressful problems again.
I can also offer you on going support, until you feel confident enough. I will also help with confidence to get you back in control.

#5 of 5 Videos

Worry, Stress, Anxiety, and Fear can lead to PHOBIC HYSTERIA! 

Being phobic can be quite dangerous because of the panic and/or being hysterical can make you behave adversely.

What do I mean? You are driving along and a wasp enters the car, you are then in a heightened panic, an hysterical act because of your phobia. Then the next second you’re swerving all over the road. (not good)

There is really only one solution to your phobia and that is to come and see me or a therapist who deals in phobias.

Watch and enjoy my video, then if you are phobic, I can offer you the solution to your problem.

I will help take away your phobic problem and that means you will be out of danger.

I use a great method of getting you to have a new perception of your phobic world.

I will get you back to being confident and phobic free.

How’s that sound?

Contact me hellohello@anxietyhypnosis.co.uk

Helping you towards success.

If you require any help with anything that you have see in the videos, then I will help you to get over your problems. This is in the Birmingham & Walsall areas With me The Nexus Team at Anxiety Hypnosis.

Join me for a free complimentary consultation to find out more…

 

OVERCOMING SOCIAL ANXIETY!

So you have social anxiety – what can you do about it…

What is social anxiety?

light bulb & peopleWhen we think of social anxiety, we often think about different social situations that make us feel shy, self-conscious or uncomfortable. The most common example of this is the feeling of being “out of place” or “awkward” at a party or family gathering. However, there is a big difference between feeling awkward at a party and having a deep rooted feeling of despair, anxiety or panic when in the company of other people.

Not many people enjoy receiving criticism, judgement or even a compliment from others, but for some, the fear of receiving such judgements can lead to paranoia, extreme discomfort and panic attacks. In some cases, individuals have had to leave their jobs, school or colleges in order to deal with their social anxiety and in extreme cases, even limit their time out in public for fear of an anxiety panic attack!

If you have reached a level where you think that social anxiety is affecting your life, then the time to act is now! With The Nexus Team Anxiety Hypnosis. Download my free Axe-Anxiety

Common Symptoms…

There are many symptoms of social anxiety and as with every other phobia, they vary in severity depending on the level of anxiety you are feeling.

When a sufferer of social anxiety finds themselves in a social situation that they are not comfortable in, they often experience the following:

Heavy sweating and/or blushing
Nausea
Shaking of the limbs
Nervous stuttering or stammering during conversation
Drying of the mouth
Shortness of breath
Weakness of the body
Sufferers also try to avoid any form of eye contact and make it difficult for themselves to be noticed or approached. For social anxiety sufferers, speaking in public is an almost impossible task.

What can I do to overcome, managing my social anxiety?

For the most part, social anxiety normally has a root cause. This is often a deep lying sub-conscious condition such as a previous embarrassment or traumatic life event which may have shattered your confidence, broken your trust or completely cooled your interest in the people, or in the world around you. Anxiety Hypnosis has been proven to be extremely successful in the area of overcoming social fears and allows you to analyse and understand your sub-conscious thought patterns, leading you to fully overcome any issues you may have, not just cover them up.

Anxiety Hypnosis can also restore your self-confidence and boost your self-esteem to new levels, as well as preparing you for public speaking or appearances. You may not think this would apply to you, but I can assure you at sometime in the future you will have to do some public speaking. This could be thanking people at a wedding, christening, birthday, anniversary or any other social event you can think of. So think of receiving Anxiety Hypnosis as an investment in not only now but also your future as this is a very important step to take right now.

You have probably suffered from social anxiety for many years and have tried avoidance, hiding, using excuses, but none of them have really worked for you. Take action today with using my professional services.

What can I do next?

If you are currently suffering from anxiety, panic attacks or are experiencing any of the symptoms above whilst in a social setting, you may be suffering from some form of social anxiety issue. If you find that these issues are affecting your work, studies or everyday lifestyle, then contact me at The Nexus Team Hypnosis today. With the help of my proven techniques that can work for you, you can learn to live a social anxiety free lifestyle as you can manage your anxiety or panic attack with relative ease. You can once again take control of your social anxiety issues and banish them, once and for all!

TIPS on managing your social anxiety.

1 Seek out a therapist who will help you.
2 Grow your confidence in other aspects of your life.
3 Sit in a chair, imagine playing out your worst social fears, but know you are still at home in the chair.
4 Tell others of your problem as most people are very supportive and want to help.
5 Unfortunately you will have to face your fears in order to conquer them.
6 If you’re going to a party, see if you can be the first to arrive, Then you don’t have the BIG problem of facing everyone right away.
7 Fire yourself up with high energy music or a drum beat as this will energise you and so help override the negative feelings and take this high energy music with you.
8 Last but not least, now take ACTION and if the panic feelings start, just calm down back away for a moment and regather your thoughts and go for it again. As the saying goes ‘Slowly, …slowly, …catch-a-monkey’.

If you live in the Walsall or Birmingham or surrounding areas I can provide you with 1-2-1 professional Anxiety Hypnosis Therapy. I have helped people in the Birmingham area, young and old who suffer social anxiety and I can help you. If you’re looking for an effective treatment plan to help you overcome your problem by controlling your social anxiety then please feel free to book a complimentary consultation with me The Nexus Team.

Helping you towards success.

 

Following on with the how to conquer the fear of spiders

…The Sequel…

Rational thinking v Irrational thinking…

The Nexus Team Anxiety Hypnosis helping you to conquer the fear of spidersWhen faced with one of your worst fears such as spiders then before you get to the stage of total panic, it would help to deal with your phobia in a rational manner.

Lets get this sorted by thinking about your fear in a much more rational way, so when the time comes, being face to face with your worst enemy, you’ll have the confidence to be calm and not let it bother you.

Irrational Thinking.

If you have a real fear of spiders then you don’t need me to tell you how you feel as this was also in my last blog.
The brain working irrationally, hasn’t the power of cognitive thought to be able to deal with this problem, and so this has to be addressed at the conscious cognitive level of rational thinking.
You have to realise that you cannot overcome the fear using irrational thinking to solve your fear of spiders. This has to be done using rational thinking and in the next chapter I will tell you what you have to do.
The only issue is that you have to use your mind to do this. Not simply to just get on and do as the words that I will convey to you, that will have to be processed by your new thinking patterns.

Rational Thinking.

Firstly with rationality what are you actually fearful of? Irrational thinking will just say the ‘spider’ but think more deeply and you’ll start to know what the problem actually is…

All fears will go once you understand them, I will give you an example of when we use the statement ‘I don’t like him’. What is it specifically about that person? Lets face it that we can have a dislike of someone just by the colour of their skin or sexual orientation because of our support of a bias nature.

1. I don’t like their attitude.
2. I don’t like how they talk.
3. I don’t like their style of clothes
4. I don’t like how they smell.
5. I don’t like their politics.
6. I don’t like who they support.

This list could go on, but once you know specifically what your prejudices are you can work to correct them because it is you with the problem, fear, phobia, and dislike.
This attitude will manifest towards many things in your life and that can be a negative, poisonous way to think and live.

Now what is it that you don’t like about a spider?

1. Is it the size?
2. It it their speed?
3. Is it their shape?
4. Is it how they make you feel?
5. Is it because they hide?
6. Is it the eyes?

Again this list could go on, but once you narrow this down you only have to deal with what is your particular issue and not the whole spider.

I Like Spiders.

I like spiders because…

I would like you to write down 30 words of what you would like about a spider. You might even say that you like Spider-Man and so you become your own hero and conquer the fear once and for all.

Once you start to reprogrammed your mind on thinking differently about spiders you will start to eradicate the negativity and so feel more in control with spiders. At this point and this should go without saying, it is important that you don’t kill them as all life is precious, also this would undo the aim of getting you fearless and not to be a killer.

Who do you know is an Arachnophile.

Or spider lover…

You can talk to those who don’t mind spiders and see what they have to say on the subject or start your own research on YouTube etc and get to know as much as you can about spiders.
Realising that you want to change, then for that to happen you have to gain knowledge.
Think of it like this if it helps. … You start a new job in a new place and you don’t know everyone’s name or the order of how things are done and what times events take place or the type of people you’ll be working with.
So you feel anxious, nervous and stressed out. But give it a week or so and you know the route and the dynamics of the style of people you work with and now you don’t feel anxious or stressed out and you are happy to go to work. Well this what will happen once you understand the dynamics of spiders.

What to do next…

living in the UK we don’t get really big spiders especially in the Birmingham area etc.
but if you have tried to get over your fear and still haven’t managed it. I can be of help with Anxiety Hypnosis because I have techniques that work on phobias to help reprogram your thinking and so dispel the negative charge you have towards a fear of spiders.
So if you want confidence in managing this by being rational when in the presence of a spider, I can help you accomplish that and it may only take you two or three sessions.

But all that said give this ago with rational positive thinking and if you can find more reasons to like spiders or indeed any insect, please let me know.
Good luck and enjoy your spider free life from The Nexus Team at Anxiety Hypnosis.

…Helping you towards success…