Are the Minds of Birmingham Set In Stone?

Anxiety Hypnosis The Nexus Team Birmingham Walsall Most people who want to change because of bad experiences will always put up a block and think they can’t change. But this is just a mental illusion and you can if you really want it!

Think of it like this, you made the decision and so you believe it must be true and this is why you think you cannot move on.

The other reason is if an authoritarian figure told you that you couldn’t do things and you believed them.

No it’s not a Rhubarb Crumble.

I want to help you see the BIG picture by looking at nature and noticing that everything in life breaks down, crumbles, changes or alters its shape. Have you ever noticed how a tree will grow around a fence that it is up against, or barbed wire running through the centre of the tree.

It looks like nothing is moving, if you could capture on film the slow movement of a tree growing over 50 years and then watch that movie it would last 30 seconds. You would see how the tree grew around the fence. Even though we all know wood is hard.

Another example would be how as you get older you can be more tolerant, such as grandparents being tolerant of their grandchildren and they may not have been the same with their own children.

Stop the Dancing…

So here is my tip on being relaxed about stress and anxiety and all the other problems people have to realise that in the end you will probably be relaxed after the event. So why do a big song and dance by getting yourself all worked up for nothing. All you have to do is keep calm. …How you might ask?

Well like anything in life, it’s not always easy to begin with and you will have to practice and once your mind knows that you’re in charge, it will stop having anger, stress, anxiety and fears as your main default setting. You will be really proud of the fact that you kept your cool, patience, and stayed calm throughout.

So when you feel that anger etc building up inside you, you have to learn to be patient. Soon you will know that you are more tolerant and know that life isn’t worth the hassle of getting all worked up, because at the end of the day we never get out of this life alive.

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So in other words stay calm, grow-up, face your challenges, don’t be afraid and success will be yours to enjoy and being hot-headed never really got you anywhere, did it?

I know that in the West Midlands, Birmingham and Walsall and the rest of the country people are fighting internal battles and it doesn’t have to be like that. The Nexus Team at Anxiety Hypnosis is here to answer any questions you have concerning anxiety and what I call all its ugly cousins such as fear etc.

Remember if you don’t want to have those thoughts set in stone any longer, you can contact me for a free complimentary consultation. Good luck from The Nexus Team at Anxiety Hypnosis.

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Anxiety hypnosis moaning medal

A German giving out medals? 

A German man once told me how the British public could get a medal for moaning, He was a manager in the UK, although he had worked around the world, but he said how bad the moaning was in this country. I must admit the way he was telling me in his very good but German twang of English was a bit like a sketch from Faulty Towers. But I had to agree that ‘Yes’ we could beat anyone at moaning

It is amazing how we can moan and moan about nothing. If you think about this and be truthful that we do moan as a British nation all the time, from the weather to everything else, as well as everything in between…

I presume this is why we have so many negative thoughts, fears and anxiety running through our brains all the time. Let’s face it,’ you become what you think’, it’s certainly not just the saying ‘you become what you eat.’ So it would make perfect sense to be highly strung, tense, with a dose of anxiousness thrown into the mix that people are ready to jump down the throats of other people if they should say anything disagreeing with a moaner.

Have you ever asked someone how they are, because you’re being polite and then they tell you how they got on at the doctors and bloody hell do they moan about what is the matter with them? I’m sure that these people have a PhD in whining.

The Vampire.

Notice how when these people walk away from you that you feel drained as they have sucked all your good energy out of you and now you’re left in a state and they walk away feeling better. These people are vampires of sucking good energy from people.

Certainly in the Birmingham area, many brummies have the wow factor in a good old moan. If you’re not careful the positive energy can be easily drawn out of you. This can be particularly bad if you’re not feeling very well to begin with. You may be one of those people where others always bring you their problems and dump them on you. Now how do you feel when they’ve gone??

Who Cares?

I know we can all get stressed and we’re all busy and we all have things to do and no time in which to do them in. But let’s face facts that the person you’re telling your problem to doesn’t really care. In fact as a nation, 70% don’t care and the rest are glad it’s happening to you and not them.
If you are one of life’s vampires then you are not helping yourself as you are poisoning your system. Imagine that it’s like you have been hypnotized to act really negative, in other words it seems you have made a very deep ruin of your life.

Having the same way of thinking and wanting a different outcome won’t happen, you have to change and I am here to help you if you wish.

But firstly it would be good to have a word with yourself to say enough’s, enough’s and you are going to change for the better. You will have to be brave and create new disciplines via order and structure to get the most out of you and your thinking.

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You probably can feel tension in your body and maybe more in your shoulders and back. Then you need to take some time out and start to relax more. Usually the first time you do this, the pain of relaxing gets worse and this is a natural effect. But just go through that little pain barrier and you’ll come to the feeling of being relaxed. Give this ago. This way you will start to let go of anxiety and tension. Imaging all the people of Birmingham relaxing, then this would spread around the UK. …Ahhh what a great feeling that would be for everyone.

The Nexus Team Anxiety Hypnosis is here to find out how you have conquered your anxiety and tension or any other related problem and lets spread the knowledge to others.The Nexus Team Anxiety Hypnosis Birmingham and Walsall

Your mind is playing with you.

Fear is the illusion of thought, do we live in a world full of illusions. Anxiety is an illusion but we’re connected to the fear and anxiousness all the time that we believe in it so much. That for some people it’s a constant threat on their mind and health.
What do I mean by the illusion? Have you ever been out walking and you see a dead cat lying in the road, when you get closer it’s a screwed up black plastic bag, yet just a few steps away, you believed that it was a dead cat.

Anxiety is an a illusion by The Nexus Team Anxiety HypnosisI know of someone who told me that one night they were walking down the road and they saw a settee in the middle of the road. When they got closer, it was the shading on the tarmac. The street lighting had made it a 3D image. It’s all an illusion and I’m sure you will have had your own experiences.
What colour is it?

How many times have you said that a colour is purple for example and someone else sees it as different shade and so on. And you cannot see how they can say it is the colour they think it is compared to your colour. Not so long ago we had the Optical illusion: Dress colour debate goes global. This was a dress that was seen as gold and white, blue and white, blue and blue or blue and black. It’s all an illusion.

Fact! There is no fear.

Anxiety, fear and stress are illusions and so believable that it’s hard not to believe in anything else. Also if you made the decision to state that you are anxious or have a fear of flying then that means you have been lying to yourself for a very long time. You may not want to own up to the fact that this isn’t true, so you created the lie and believed in it. In Birmingham I see many people who have suffered these exact same symptoms. So at Anxiety Hypnosis we use many tools to help people just like you to break their belief system and live an Anxiety free life. This works whether you live in Birmingham or in the rest of the country.

Tool kit thinking.

1) Stop trying to make sense of your anxiety.
2) Don’t judge anything to do with anxiety.
3) Don’t give any anxious thoughts any recognition.
4) Just for today, stand up to yourself and be fearless.
5) Chose a relaxing colour – now mentally paint your world that colour.

I realise that life can be hard and challenging, but you have to live a full healthy life and I can help you overcome your illusions of stress, anxiety, and fears.

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Email me today with any thoughts you have concerning this subject and I will get back to you and if you really want to change, then book a free complimentary consultation.
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Active thinking  with Anxiety Hypnosis by The Nexus TeamIt’s not always to do with what you thought…

Having an anxious moment in your day-to-day life can be bad enough, but it may not be the cause of your anxiety or stress…

Do you get anxious most of the time that leads to stress and feeling angry?

Well here’s a tip to help you combat these feelings all the time no matter what’s going on around you.

Think of it like this; see if you can implement this into your new way of thinking because if you’re always going to react in the same way, you’ll always get the same result.

Pressure, Pressure, Pressure…

Imagine the 4 wheels on a car, on the wheels you have 4 tyres and they need to be inflated to their optimum pressure. Too little pressure and the tyre will wear down and the car will drive unevenly or pull over to one side when you brake.

Over inflate the tyres with too much pressure and you create another problem. This is the same as people at work or in a relationship either not pulling their weight or the person getting over stressed with too much to do!

So whatever you’re doing, check to notice if the pressure in your mental thinking is at the optimum pressure to function at your best. Because if you have a problem at work and think it’s to do with work, when in actual fact it was an incident going to work that caused it.

Check list tips:

1) How is my relationship, have you kissed each other and done your own thing knowing that you left each other feeling happy.
2) Do you slack at work or do you know that you can work better as this will lead to a promotion or do you get away with the bare minimum.
3) How well do you take care of yourself, whether this is eating right or having the right hobby or activity to do? Maybe you need something to break the monotony of every day to day grind and help make you feel part of something. Or the reverse is that you are out too much and it’s impacting on the relationship.
4) Last but not least, what is yourself talking like? Is it positive and a self fulfilling prophecy of accomplishing tasks. Or one that is on a self destructive pattern of bad behaviour and constantly whines…

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So I hope this helps and you’ll have 4 mental tyres inflated just right, give it ago and let me know how you get on.

If you would like to find out if I can help with any fears or anxiety problems, please let me know by dropping me a message.

You can download my free Axe-anxiety E-guide to help you in the meantime. Also you can send me a personal message of how you overcame certain difficulties in your life, such as fears and phobias and stress and I can share these to help others.

Thanks in advance The Nexus Team, Anxiety Hypnosis. www.anxiety.ez1car.com